Ask!

Have you ever feel insecure in your life?

Yes?

No?

Don't lie because I know all of us must have had that feeling. It's very normal, right? When we were small, we were afraid with people that we have never met. We were afraid of dark, thinking that ghost will suddenly appear in front of us and eat us (or was that just me? :P). We were scared on the first day of school because of the new environment. We felt insecure about things that could harm us physically at that time. When WE WERE SMALL.

And now, when we are all grown ups, we still feel insecure. Not about things that may harm us physically, but mentally and emotionally. In any relationship, this insecurity will definitely reside in us naturally. Even if you are happy with the relationship, that feeling will still come. You tend to feel insecure with your partner. You have doubt on his/her loyalty, faithfulness, love, and attention. You don't feel secure giving all your heart, care, love, and trust as you are not sure if it's worth it.

I had that feeling too, once. And it didn't help at all. One of my friend always complaint to me about her boyfriend who was "over friendly" and liked to comment and like other girls' pictures and statuses on Facebook and Instagrm. She didn't tell this to her boyfriend, but she kept on thinking about it. She was afraid if the boyfriend will suddenly fall in love with other girl. That, is exactly an insecure feeling right?

To me personally, if you have anything that bothers your life/ anything that is not right to your sound mind/ anything that aches your eyes/ anything that disturbs your emotion which comes/relates from/to your partner, ASK him/her. Don't assume, don't guess. ASK! You will feel so much better :)

NK